I'll respond patronizingly to you being highly reactive to a situation in which I 'innocently' recreated exactly what I know caused you the most traumatic pain in our past. I'll deny forgiveness when you apologize for panicking as a result, and then continue stonewalling you.
Afterwards, I'll act shocked when it sets you off even more and you begin to spiral..I'll only focus on your feelings in respect to how they impact ME. I'll be much too busy feeling slighted or annoyed to realize that the initiating issue was not an attack from you at all, but insensitive comments and a refusal to compromise on my part. I'll ignore ALL OF THAT because the conflict could've only arisen and spun out of control because you're selfish and crazy.
You couldn't help but to randomly act out again. Just something else that went wrong in my life for no reason at all. I'll be forced to put you back where you belong, in lower rank. You went crazy on me, like all my partners have and all my future ones will. It could've been so simple if you'd just done things in a way that would've produced exactly what I wanted! Clueless, as always..
I can't let your perspective, which I don't care about, be valid, because that would mean I'd have to reflect on my own.. That much introspection isn't my jam, instead I'll unleash all my inner rage (which has nothing to do with you) to show you who's really wrong. —My Birthday